Tuesday, April 15, 2008

MAKING CHOICES

By this artikel we learn a lesson here...a lesson about decisions: if I don't make

decisions myself, others will probably make them for me. Better that

I make them myself

Joseph Henry was an American scientist who served as the first Secretary of the Smithsonian Institution. He used to tell a rather strange story about his childhood. His grandmother, who raised him, once paid a cobbler to make him a pair of shoes.

The man measured his feet and told Joseph that he could choose between two styles: a rounded toe or a square toe. Little Joseph couldn't decide. It seemed to be such a huge decision; after all, they would become his only pair of shoes for a long time.

The cobbler allowed him to take a couple of days to make up his mind. Day after day, Joseph went into the shop, sometimes three or four times a day! Each time he looked over the cobbler's shoes and tried to decide. The round-toed shoes were more practical, but the square toes looked more fashionable. He continued to procrastinate. He wanted to make up his mind, but he just couldn't decide!

Finally, one day he went into the shop and the cobbler handed him a parcel wrapped in brown paper. His new shoes! He raced home. He tore off the wrapping and found a beautiful pair of leather shoes – one with a rounded toe and the other with a square toe.

I can learn a lesson here...a lesson about decisions: if I don't make decisions myself, others will probably make them for me. Better that I make them myself.

And if I choose poorly from time to time, that's okay, too. At least I won't have to wear shoes that don't match. Besides, I'll probably do better the next time.

-- Steve Goodier


2 comments:

Rose Siregar said...

Hehehehe...bener banget...untuk hal yang simple aja kadang kita sulit untuk memutuskan. Kadang untuk belanja, aku lebih suka sendiri, karena kalau ada teman kadang suka terpengaruh dengan pendapat mereka, dan malah memilih sesuatu yang sampe di rumah kok jadi gak suka. Repotnya, kalau belanja sendiri dan beli sesuatu, ketika di rumah banyak yang bilang gak bagus, jadi terpengaruh juga dan gak pede memakainya....repotnya....

Ita Widiastanti said...

yuup, makanya gw juga lebih suka belanja sendiri, lebih nyaman, cuma ya gitu kalo pas lg jlan ke mall trus kelaperan mo makan sendirian di tempat makan gak pede he..he... Jd lapernya suka ditahan sampe rumah. Makanya gw salut tuh ma org-org yang tetep merasa nyaman meskipun makan sendirian di tempat makan. They're people who feel comfortable with themselves. Kalo gw? masih suka gak pede-an ^_*