Still this is the most favorite poem I have, wanna share it with you...^_*
LOVE CHANCE AND CHOICE
When we meet the right person to love
When we’re at the right place at the right time
That’s a chance
When you meet someone you’re attracted to
That’s not a choice
That’s a chance
Being caught up in the moment (and there’s a lot of couple ho get together because of this)
is not a choice
that’s also a chance
The different is what happenes afterwards
When will you take that infatuation…that crush…that mind blowing attraction to the next level?
That’s when all sanity goes back, you sit down and contemplate…
whether you want to make this into concrete relationship or just fling
If you decide to LOVE person, even with his faults…that’s not a CHANCE
That’s a CHOICE
When you choose to be with someone…nomatter what…that’s a CHOICE
Even if you know there are many people out there who are more attractive, smarter or richer
than your mate, and yet you decide to love your mate just the same…that’s a choice
Infatuation, crushes, attraction comes to us by CHANCE…
But true love that lasts is…truly a CHOICE
A choice that we make….
“Fate brings you together, but it’s still up up to you to make it happen…”
I do believe that soul mate do exist…
That there is truly someone made for you
But it’s still up to you to make the choice..if you’re going to do something about it…or not
We may meet our soulmate by CHANCE, but loving and staying with our soulmate is still a CHOICE we have to make…
We came to the world NOT by finding someone perfect to love…
BUT to learn how to love an imperfect person perfectly…
CONCLUSION:
It is not the matter how to find someone perfect to love…but to love someone imperfect perfectly…
Love itself is a choice….
3 comments:
Gimana tau nya kalau seseorang itu soul mate kita ya? Jangan-jangan soulmate gue udah gue putusin....*cry mode on*...ntar gue gak punya soulmate lagi donk?
Jawabannya satu Rose, listen to your heart, Nurani neng. Kalo Nurani tuh gak pernah salah, kalo pikiran sering salah. Gw gak tau Rose katolik atau bukan, tp kalo di kalangan org katolik ada suatu kepercayaan kalo kita ikut Misa Jumat pertama selama 9 kali berturut-turut, anything we wish will be granted. Nah pernah tuh pas hbs putus ma co gw yg pertama gw ngelakuin itu (selama 9 bulan berturut-turut Boo..) my wish is to meet my soulmate, gak lama dari 9 kali Jumat pertama selesai, co gw balik lg ke gw (kebetulan bgt gak sih..) pas waktu itu gw mikir this is the answer of my prayer, walopun rada ragu hbs kok kayaknya gak sreg gitu ya di hati hbs kita kan putusnya krn beda agama, kok tiba2 doi balik lg, pdhl jelas2 gak mo ikut gw. Eh ternyata memang bener, kaya never ending circles kita berantem lg putus lg...habis itu pacaran ma org lain lg, trus putus lg, sampai waktu itu dah gak interest ma rrelationship, tiba-tiba my future husband balik ke Jakarta dan kita jd deket, gitu lah, unpredictable bgt, kalo ditanya dulu pas kuliah gw gak kebayang bakal merit my husband, krn kan kita dah temenan dari jadul bgt, ya intinya listen to your heart gitu deh...Rada kurang mengena ya penjelasannya?
Jawabannya sih kena...cuma mungkin gue aja yang o'on ya...mungkin nurani gue udah tumpul ya...atau nurani gue sering terkontaminasi ama otak gue....
By the way, aku protestan...di kita sih gak ada seperti itu ya...tapi aku rasa intinya sama, berdoa aja terus ya....
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